Target?

If you are targeting something, what would you do?

Of course you will answering 'i ll pursue for that' or 'i ll do everything to achieve my target'.
Maybe those words can be applied if you are referring to material, gadget etc. But if it is involving other persons 'feelings', are you confident those words can be applied?

I think, instead of 'i ll pursue' or 'i ll do everything', you may prefer 'i ll try' or 'i'm hoping'...

Because, dealing with other people is much more difficult than dealing with your own self. If you wish to got an ipod, eventhough it is quite expensive, you can just saving your money for certain period, or working or asking someone to buy it for you. But if you wish someone to be your couple/wife, it would be much more difficult. You need extra effort to tackle her/his heart. You need certain character to make he/she attracted to you. And sometimes you need to be someone else just to get her/his attention towards you.

If you already got an Ipod, you can just used it when u want, and throw it just like that when you dont really need it anymore. And no matter, how rude you are to the ipod, the ipod wont be sulking or doing certain things that will make you had a headache for a long period of time.

But, can you threat she/he just like you treat your Ipod?

If you do, then I can guarantee, after a few days, she/he will left you. And in return, maybe she/he will do something for revenge. If the realtionship already last for a few years, then you will need a few years more to recovering your heart and forgotting those suffering memories.

Actually, the points that i would like to stress based on those situation are, if you are targeting more on 'feelings' or 'love', you will probably suffering from the beginning until the end (if you ended not marrying that person). But if you targeting for something like becoming wealthy, successfull etc in your life, then maybe you will just suffer at the beginning and have a nice and colourfull days afterward...